前段因为一直出差，加上回京后杂事繁多，好长时间没给儿子写博了。某种程度上也是因为儿子现在每天都有变化，每天都在进步，每天都在变得更加可爱，每天都在成长，以至于文字都有点跟不上，昨天的趣事刚想记录下来，就被今天的快乐刷新了。
有时就想，这段时间可能是这一生中与儿子最亲密无间、互无嫌隙的“黄金时间”，因为儿子还不会气人，只会可爱，只会依恋，只会耍宝；我也只会去欣赏他的可爱，赞赏他的点滴进步，鼓励他的学习甚至破坏，不会因为工作、家庭矛盾把气撒在孩子身上，更还没有等孩子长大后变成“老古董”而成为儿子眼中的敌人。
刘瑜在《
送你一颗子弹》中说人生在走到瓶颈时的解决方案就是让孩子出场，现在觉得还是有道理的。孩子真是个天使，能让人成熟并给全家人带来了无数的欢乐和希望。
当儿子看着我，带着些许羞涩但很认真地喊出“爸爸”时，我觉得自己这三十多年的人生终于有了一个交代。
it could happen here today
it could happen here today
and i can't wait to see your face
no i can't wait to see your face
can you hold on while i take hold of myself
can you hold on while i take hold of myself
you're the little thing,
my saving grace
you're just a little thing,
my saving grace
it could happen here today
it could happen here today
you are my saving grace
you are my saving grace
will you be strong while i take hold of myself
will you be strong while i take hold of myself
you're the little thing, my saving grace
you're just a little thing, my saving graceit could happen here today
it could happen here today
you are my saving grace
you are my saving grace
